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Why won’t my pain go away? Understanding chronic musculoskeletal pain
Nicola Tik
March 24, 2025

Does this sound familiar?

You had an injury, strain or flare-up months ago. You expected the pain to fade, but instead, it lingers. Some days it is better, some days worse, but it never fully disappears. You have tried rest, stretching, maybe even painkillers, yet nothing seems to fix it.

So why is the pain still there?

Chronic musculoskeletal pain (lasting more than three months) is different from short-term pain. It is real pain, but it is not just about damaged tissues anymore. It is about how your nervous system is processing pain signals.

Let’s break it down.

Why pain lingers: it is not just about injury

When you first get injured, pain is a normal part of healing. Your body sends pain signals to protect the injured area and encourage rest. But in chronic pain, something changes:

Your pain system stays on high alert. Even after tissues heal, your nervous system remains sensitive, sending pain signals even when there is no real danger.

Muscles tighten and weaken. If pain leads to less movement, certain muscles weaken while others become tense, creating ongoing discomfort.

The brain remembers pain patterns. Over time, your brain learns pain like a habit. Even normal movements can trigger pain responses, even if no damage is occurring.

Stress and sleep impact pain levels. Poor sleep, anxiety and stress increase pain sensitivity, making even mild discomfort feel worse.

How to calm an overactive pain system

The good news is that your nervous system can be retrained. Chronic pain does not mean permanent pain. Here is how to start shifting it:

Gentle movement, even in small amounts. Moving within your comfort zone helps desensitise the pain system and restores confidence in your body.

Manage stress. Relaxation techniques like deep breathing, meditation or journaling help calm the nervous system and reduce pain intensity.

Improve sleep quality. Sleep is when your body repairs and regulates pain. A consistent routine, reducing screen time before bed and limiting caffeine can make a difference.

Reframe pain. Instead of seeing pain as damage, think of it as sensitivity. This shift helps reduce fear and makes movement feel safer.

Final thoughts

Chronic pain is frustrating, but your body is not broken. Pain that lasts does not always mean harm. It means your nervous system needs a reset. By moving gradually, managing stress and improving sleep, you can retrain your system and reduce pain over time.